It has been a few days of 'berpantang' now. By now I should be a pro about confinement-after-miscarriages but the reality is... I'm still quite confuse. Google has been a close friend this past few days and even then, it can't give any definite answer. Below are some useful websites for my future references:-
- About D&C
- More on D&C
- Confinement after miscarriage
- Confinement practices
- More on confinement practices
- Confinement menu
What am I confuse about? Well... there's the air kunyit, Nona Roguy herbal tea, pati ikan haruan, the limited confinement menu, the opposing view of confinement food, less water consumption, the watery singgang and soup menu, massages, herbal bath, bengkung, tungku, tangas.... sigh! Aren't you confuse yet?
This morning I felt more pain in the lower abdomen than the past few days. Could be something I've eaten. Have to be more careful of what I consume. What's good for others may not be good for me, vice-versa. Our body is complex and unique. I've read about some who didn't bother about confinement say they feel fine and some who complaints about not feeling well enough without proper confinement. As much as I want to be a tough girl, my body has always shown me how delicate it can be.
Sunflower gives the connotation of cheerfulness, bright, jolly, merry... you get the idea! However, if any content in this blog didn't fit the cheerfulness implied by its name, look at it this way... I'm putting down all the wretchedness, gloom, melancholy feeling in here so I can continue living up to the expectation of making the association to the sunflower.
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