Misyar? So What If I Died A Virgin!

So what if I died a virgin! You won’t miss things you never have.

I’m not surprised with Nik Aziz’s support for Misyar. Besides, one of his MPs remarked about ‘gatal’ PAS Kelantanese women isn’t it? I’m sure these women are desperate for men if the allegations are true. Before any Kelantanese women attacked me, refer to this entry. Since Fatah is a Kelantan PAS MP, he would have had more contact with more Kelantanese PAS women and observe them more to come up with such remarks. And maybe... the Prof. who came up with the idea is a Kelantanese too.

I’m not going to dwell so much on the legality of Misyar. Even if every man in Malaysia go on a bended knee and beg Malaysian women to agree to Misyar, it won’t happen if no women agrees to it.

I just wonder though on the mentality of the person who comes up with this ‘solution’ to solve the issues of unmarried and divorced women in the country. Did he know why more women choose to remain single or why some choose to get a divorce?

Could it be due to the quality of Malaysian Muslim men who have no qualms about abandoning their responsibility? And now they want to make it legal for men not to have any responsibilities other than sexual needs? What if they even suck with that? We would have cases in the Syariah court where women wants to get a divorce because their husband’s performance is not up to their expectation and they are married just for that purpose only.

If they can't perform their only duty well, there is no need to keep them around any longer isn't it? The Syariah court better accept that reason for a divorce without prolonging the case unnecessarily like what many women have to endure now. In the end I think we’ll become like the Amazonian women where men is only good for one thing and we can discard them when their service is no longer required.

Would men’s ego take it? Just imagine, men with four wives (they can well afford four wives now because they don’t have to pay a single cent to support them) who are at the beck and call of their wives to perform their duties. Just like a gigolo except the wives don’t have to pay them for their service. And how would the children view their father? Boys would grow up thinking they are only good at one thing. Don't have to study so hard. Just make sure they look good so women will pick them as the husband.

Come to think of it, is Misyar really to help the women or the men? Datuk Shahrizat did say women could live without men and I’ve seen the evidence. It is a fact we have more ladies in higher educational institution which leads to better career and pay for the women. So now many men can’t afford to pay for the marriage gift or hantaran in addition to the other wedding expenses. So no money means no marriage and no wife. I wonder who is more desperate here. It could be those where the local playboy magazine finds a market.